Ok, so what you're saying is that Fusion integration is still not ideal. The software doesn't work as expected. There are no handles. It's a clearly a bug. Extending compositions in Fusion is difficult.
Which is unacceptable as the feature is there, it just doesn't work.
It's not that I don't want to change my workflow. It's just that it's a software and I'm expecting it to work. I think it would have been better phrased as
"Fusion is still not well integrated into Resolve. What you're trying to do is not working well. Unfortunately the only "safe" way is to plan ahead and make a longer composition. If you need a major change, unfortunately you'll have to start from scratch".
In other words: it's a Fusion issue, not my workflow's. And I'm not trying to blame others, I'm just trying to be reasonable. It's a feature that doesn't work (yet).
Work like you are exporting to a separate compositing app and all will be fine.
This is helpful advice, thank you!
That being said, on my latest video I haven't extended the composition and still, it's unworkable as it's completely out of sync with what happens in EDIT. To complete that simple animation I had to find the timing in EDIT, then jump in Fusion and do the changes blindly as the playback was completely out of sync.
Don't tell me the answer is "don't use Fusion"