I don't adjust clips with different focus. It's 1.33x for me for each clip. And if there is such a case, for example a scene with a circular object, which appears as ellipse, I would simply zoom in a bit and adjust the y axis. So far such a case hasn't occurred yet. I mostly do nature short films, and I rarely do rack focus where the squeeze factor change and breathing can be seen.
The Sirui Mars set is very good in my opinion. I love its colourful flares, next to the horizontal blue flare. You can see a lot of this lens set on my channel youtube.com/@Eleni999 (not in 2024 videos, where I didn't have the Mars set with me). I use this set with the Pocket 4k. Camera and lenses match very well. Anamorphic clips get recognised in Resolve, the squeeze factor is automatically applied.
Regarding the difference of squeeze factor at different focus setting of the Mars set, I recommend this channel:
https://www.youtube.com/@AnamorphicOnABudgetHe also explains the inner working of cheap anamorphics compared to expensive ones that keep the squeeze factor. I watched dozens of his videos before I decided to buy the Mars set.
Regarding problems with anamorphic lenses and post stabilisation: I often use the 'Translation' and the gyro variant in Resolve. This keeps the flares mostly intact. Most of my investments in gear in the last two years was mainly focused on mechanical and motorised gimbals, and combinations of them (Arri Trinity alike). You really want to have a stable and fluid camera movement when working with anamorphic lenses. And use tripods. As Sean van Berlo said, post-stabilisation can get ugly. However, I'm only starting with the gimbal combinations. 2025 will be very interesting, once the snow has gone.