Formatt Hitech are good. I have a set of their 4x4 IRND filters for use in a matte box.
I would not buy 58mm screw fit. It limits your use. If you then want an ND on say the Tokina, you'll have to buy again. Gets expensive. Put a 77mm step up ring on all your lenses and buy one set of filters. You can then use them on all the lenses.

I'd start with 3 densities on the BMCC:
0.6 (ND4) = 2stops
1.2 (ND16) = 4stops
1.8 (ND64) = 6stops
The BMCC has a great dynamic range and can deal with the difference easily in post. You can then fill in the gaps as you have budget.
Another option is a variable ND like the GenusTech Eclipse Fade (
http://amzn.to/1awCQa1) and an IR Cut Filter like the Hoya UV / IR Cut (
http://amzn.to/17RjCYz).