HDR problems

I can't seem to get HDR to function properly. I've tried lots of settings from different guides, including Dolby Visions own tutorials, but both with and without Dolby Vision, it doesn't look correct and the output renders doesn't look at all like in Resolve.
I'm currently not having an output card for this, but the TV I'm usually grading on has HDR to 2000 nits and with HDR turned on in windows, Resolve should still work with it, right? But even that shouldn't affect the extreme shifts I get with my exports.
What is the basic setup for HDR at 2000 nits (using Red files)? Just so I can understand if the problems occur in grade or in export.
I'm currently not having an output card for this, but the TV I'm usually grading on has HDR to 2000 nits and with HDR turned on in windows, Resolve should still work with it, right? But even that shouldn't affect the extreme shifts I get with my exports.
What is the basic setup for HDR at 2000 nits (using Red files)? Just so I can understand if the problems occur in grade or in export.