Where is 18% Grey on a waveform?

My brain hurts reading all about 18% gray being calibrated to 42IRE or some such settings.
I shoot with a Panasonic GH5 with a profile of vLog. I shoot at 4k/422/10bit/ALL-Intra,400Mbps
The waveform is a small graph with solid and dotted horizontal lines. There are no numbers on this scale.
I also have a X Rite Passport Colour Chart
My Atomos Ninja V has a waveform with horizontal lines and a scale going from 0 to 100
My Davinch Resolve has a Waveform Scope with horizontal lines a scale going from 0 to 1023 and a dotted line at scale point 512.
I have read many, many, many reviews and forums but nobody has mentioned where the IRE Sweet-spot magic number fits onto a Waveform. And I can not find where a Waveform shows an IRE scale on my camera, monitor or Editing software.
I have the tools to read and plot a specificity printed tone of grey on a card, but I can not find anywhere on the internet to tell me where this specific tone of grey should be represented on a Waveform to achieve good exposure.
Could somebody please tell me in IDIOT TERMS where 18% (Middle) grey, on my X Rite Passport should sit on the Waveforms on my Panasonic GH5, Ninja V and DaVinci Resolve?
Its a simple question, so why can't I find the answer?
I shoot with a Panasonic GH5 with a profile of vLog. I shoot at 4k/422/10bit/ALL-Intra,400Mbps
The waveform is a small graph with solid and dotted horizontal lines. There are no numbers on this scale.
I also have a X Rite Passport Colour Chart
My Atomos Ninja V has a waveform with horizontal lines and a scale going from 0 to 100
My Davinch Resolve has a Waveform Scope with horizontal lines a scale going from 0 to 1023 and a dotted line at scale point 512.
I have read many, many, many reviews and forums but nobody has mentioned where the IRE Sweet-spot magic number fits onto a Waveform. And I can not find where a Waveform shows an IRE scale on my camera, monitor or Editing software.
I have the tools to read and plot a specificity printed tone of grey on a card, but I can not find anywhere on the internet to tell me where this specific tone of grey should be represented on a Waveform to achieve good exposure.
Could somebody please tell me in IDIOT TERMS where 18% (Middle) grey, on my X Rite Passport should sit on the Waveforms on my Panasonic GH5, Ninja V and DaVinci Resolve?
Its a simple question, so why can't I find the answer?