It is irrelevant that you are using IPP2 because working in Managed or ACES Resolve takes control over any raw file format and does it's conversion to timeline from the native camera space (with a conversion step to ACES-2065-1 (AP0) / Linear in between as part of how ACES works).
I think that the issue here lies in the fact that it does this from the source gamut but linear gamma, not the camera's log space. When you render this to a proxy file anything that was captured above 1 (linear light/float) gets clipped because you are storing it in an integer format like ProRes or DNxHR 10bit.
You can't control the IDT for proxies separate from the source files I think so you have two options:
1. Create proxies by disabling ACES management and globally set your raw files to Red Wide Gamut / Log3G10 and then create desired proxies.
Instead of linking the proxies replace the actual source media with them and set IDT to that colorspace until you are done with editing and need to go back to full res raw.
2. Create proxies the same way but do link them as proxies to the raw files.
Create a CST node on your timeline or pre-group grade color page, or on an adjustmentlayer in the edit page with these settings.

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This will correct the mismatch between originals and proxies.
I don't fully know why you need the DaVinci tonemapping with ~31.5 adaptation instead of no tonemapping but that worked in my testing.
Disable that node/layer when you switch back from proxies to raw files.
Far from ideal but I don't know another way..