Thank you for all of the replies (with the exception of the one suggesting a Dell

). I'm new to all of this so it took me some time to work through understanding what kind of files I had and how to do some testing.
All of the files that I'm testing are H.264. The HD files are from my iPhone and the UHD ones from a test of the Sony RX100 IV at Cinema5D. All of them play perfectly in FCPX, none play perfectly in DaVinci Resolve. I transcoded one of the UHD clip to Apple ProRes, and that file plays perfectly in DaVinci Resolve!
So, do I need to transcode everything to ProRes for DaVinci resolve? If so, how does one manage large projects that way? The files are huge! Also, what is the best way to transcode outside of FCPX?