So far everyone here has clearly not read what I am asking for, though I appreciate everyone trying to be educational.
Color Match will not work if you are intentionally blasting the subject with a bright purple light. Color Match only neutralizes/balances, it does not (currently) let you match A to B.
In particular, the goal is to solve for differences in the spectral sensitivities of the sensors for a given illuminant / scene, in linear, such that you maintain additive mixtures, and the match is exposure invariant. This is possible currently with external tools such as the colour science python library, with Nuke (mmColorTarget, MatchMacbeth), and in Autodesk Flame.
Resolve does not have any tooling for this, other than analyzing externally and then generating your own DCTL, which is what I am currently doing.
Currently I export EXRs in Fusion, run the solver with python, generate a DCTL that will perform the 3x3 matrix operation, and then import that DCTL into Resolve each time I need to do this task.
For instance, here is a DCTL that matched a Canon B cam to a Sony Burano A cam, after both had been converted to AP1/Linear, being lit by an ARRI Skypanel that I used yesterday on a project:

This works quite similarly to the RGB Mixer in Resolve, only with many more decimal places, and was produced by a script.
Another way to think of it: Generating your own application / scene specific ACES IDTs.
This also came in handy when needing to match sensor native Phantom high speed camera EXR files to an A cam, since Phantom do not provide an official ACES IDT, so I was able to make a custom IDT specifically tuned for the lighting used on set to nudge it into AP1, matching it bang on with the A cam.
Hope this makes sense, thanks.