Also a "nope" from me.
A 40x40 switch has 1600 internal connections (crosspoints), a 20x20 has 400 (you could connect every input to every output at one crossing point). So a 60x60 Switch would have 3600 crosspoints - 1600 more than the 40x40 and 20x20 added.
Maybe a clever setup would give you amazing flexibility, but never ever a real 60 to 60 matrix. Everey connection between the routers reduces the complete capacity. If all of the 20 inputs from the small router needs to be connected to the big one at the same time, you would need 20 intputs at the big one. In this case using the small one combined with the big one would be nonsense

Maybe you can identiffy independent functional groups to use the routers and having less connections between both.