Guys... am i too dumb or what ?

I have 2 open exr clips. One as background and one as foreground with an alpha.
I import them. Background clip on Video 1 and Foreground clip on Video 2 above.
But now comes the bummer:
I want to add a simple blur on the Foreground, BUT when i do the foreground object CLIPS the effect at the alpha margins. Well i thought, i just need to check on "Use OFX alpha" but it does nothing.
Look attachment.
What do i do wrong. Oh, i managed to do this in fusion with nodes, but i dont want to, because fusion is slow, and i want to use the color interface.
So the red glow should go beyond the edges not be cut off at the alpha edges.
Many thanks