Thanks all - really helpful,
I'm going to use the Resolve auto-match because it's faster and I now assume it knows better where the colours should end up, given they clearly don't line up with a video vectorscope.
As a little extended test, I did pull a still image from a comparison video (
) and ran the colour match on both in the same frame. So, for anyone reading this for future reference, the way this guy approaches it (manually lining both up with the vector targets) is WRONG - just use the Resolve match function with both.
Manually lining up will give you 'better' results with the x-rite video passport, but your saturation still won't be right, so just don't overthink it and use the automatic tools with these prosumer-level cards.
What my test did confirm for me is the Spydercheckr delivers essentially the same results as the video passport when both are automated (the x-rite swatch hues, post-matching, are just better aligned for video scopes).
For my purposes I'm happy with the Datacolor SpyderCheckr I have (based on the bigger, better case and tripod mount on it, but not the dumb product name) - just be aware that you should definately be using the automatic matching for accurate results.